Femininity is a superpower, a gentle yet powerful force women can harness to get what they want.
In the dating scene, men are naturally driven to pursue women they desire, and women can use their feminine energy to attract a man and encourage him to pursue them.
Below are some of the ways a woman can positively pull the ‘femininity card’ to win over a man and to keep him wanting her the more.
Be open to receiving
Men enjoy taking charge in relationships. Women accustomed to hyper-independence may struggle to let things flow. Always embrace your feminine essence by welcoming compliments, gifts, invitations, and help. For instance, thank him warmly for calling you.
Look attractive
Men are visual creatures. To gain an edge in the dating game, prioritise looking your best. Choose outfits that make you feel confident and desirable. Attraction and courting go hand in hand.
Have an aura of mystery
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When getting to know each other, keep some details about yourself private. This creates intrigue and makes him more eager to learn about you. Leave room for his imagination, and he will pursue harder.
Be authentic
Encouraging a man to pursue you doesn’t mean pretending to be someone you’re not. Authenticity allows for deeper connections and shows you’re comfortable in your own skin.
Pretending to be something you are not or to like what you don’t deny both of you the chance to connect on a deeper level.
Being yourself shows that you have nothing to prove and it is naturally magnetic.
Ask for his help
Men thrive on feeling needed and protected. Request small favours he can easily manage, and watch him feel more invested in you.
Smile
Men may find it daunting to approach an unfriendly-looking woman. A warm smile makes you approachable and boosts his confidence to talk to you. Laugh at his jokes to build rapport.
Embrace your sensuality
Feminine power exudes sensuality effortlessly. Celebrate the things you love about yourself and accentuate them. Flirt subtly in person or through texts, and keep things playful to stay on his mind.
Make eye contact
Psychology studies show that two people can develop attraction towards each other through eye contact.
Prolonged eye contact sparks attraction. If you notice him looking at you, meet his gaze, smile, or nod. This signals your openness and encourages him to approach.
Have a life outside of him
It’s attractive to have a fulfilling life beyond him. Pursue your hobbies, interests, and social activities. This keeps your attention scarce and piques his interest further.
By embracing your feminine energy, you not only attract but inspire a man to pursue and cherish you.