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How do we move from 'roommates' to 'lovers' without it feeling forced?

My husband and I used to have a special language of our own, but somehow that has disappeared, along with our intimacy. How can we get close like that again?
By Chris Hart 19h ago
What was once a cultural mandate is now a choice. More men are rejecting fatherhood in favour of autonomy, financial freedom and a new identity
By Peter Muiruri Jan. 17, 2026
sexual trauma can be caused by sexual violation, coercion into sexual activity, rape, harassment, repeated boundary violations, and a fearful and shameful upbringing
By Anjellah Owino Jan. 17, 2026
A sweatshirt is no longer just a basic layer; when printed with bold words or meaningful slogans, it becomes a reflection of your personality
By Molly Chebet Jan. 17, 2026
From intricate Bantu knots to free-flowing Fulani braids and natural hair twists, whichever style an African woman wears, her hair tells stories not only of culture but of sovereignty
By Jael Wakesho Jan. 16, 2026
In our ultra-connected world, a smartphone is not just a gadget but a mirror to the persona and a distinctive status symbol
By Jael Wakesho Jan. 15, 2026
The holidays are over, and the crash back to reality is brutal. This sudden shift from festive excitement to the daily grind is a common psychological slump known as the post-holiday blues
By Esther Muchene Jan. 15, 2026
Parents should select clinics and sperm banks that are properly regulated. These providers must clearly explain their donor programs and demonstrate robust systems for record-keeping
By Dr Alfred Murage Jan. 14, 2026
Men may say yes, not because they want to, but to protect their masculinity. This is why many men find it difficult to refuse intimacy even when they feel uncomfortable
By Anjellah Owino Jan. 14, 2026
Far from assigning blame or failing to take accountability in a relationship setting, for instance, this functions as a collaborative effort into the mechanics of how a couple speaks to each other
By Esther Muchene Jan. 13, 2026
In a world where marriage is often seen as the ultimate goal, more women are choosing to prioritise careers, independence and self-fulfilment
By Jael Wakesho Jan. 13, 2026
Vitamin C isn’t just for colds; it protects your cells, supports collagen for healthy skin and blood vessels, and boosts overall immunity, all through simple daily fruits and vegetables.
By Brendah Makena Jan. 12, 2026