5 reasons why you are not his potential wife

When some ladies are heartbroken from their relationships, they tend to be rude and so cold to the ex-partner. Well, I cannot blame them because people have different reactions towards such situations. Some will be abusive, some make it a public thing and some will rather be silent for a while claiming they want some time alone.

But what most never attempt to reason is why they were left? Sometimes heartbreaks do not happen for the sake but for the better of either. If a relationship is bad then there is a reason to end it.

Here are some reasons why some men will rather end a relationship with a lady than get married to them.

Men get attracted to ladies not only because of their beauty but also for their regard. This stretches from self-respect in your dressing, utterance and actions.

You might dress scantly but still some men around you refer you as beautiful. Nevertheless, the same men may never want you to be their girl. Dressing code sells your personality. If you don yourself anyhow, you will be handled carelessly. Your body is a special gift. Wrap is nicely.

Men dislike abusive ladies. Ladies who will always want to fight back during a small quarrel by uttering insults. Moreover, regularly comparing a man with your ex will put him off to an extent that can be the best reason for him to let go.

All in all, respect is a two-way-traffic.

It is easier for a man to handle a lady who angers for a short time then relaxes than a hot-tempered one who can go days without forgiving. Wrangles and squabbles are common in relationships. If one can control emotions better than the other then it can be easy for the two to cope.

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But most times men hate ladies who try to prove themselves more offended than them. They will love to stay with a lady who forgives and forgets easily.

It is more satisfying being with someone who can change the mood in the house from the gloomy atmosphere to happiness. Most men may not open up to their ladies of their emotional problems. These sorts of men can bear up a company of a lady who can crack jokes to cheer him up.

If most times when the man is gloomy his lady adds additional problems, then it is better to leave her and find a worthier one.

This is where the catch is. Few ladies are best pretenders when it comes to relationships. Sometimes when distance is the key, they tend to be good pretenders.  They pretend they are sick, hungry and they miss their lovers when they are secretly having a good time with another man.

Some secretly bed the best friends of their men. Secrecy breaks trust in a relationship. Most men will prefer they better be secretive than their spouses.

Communication is always the key to a standing relationship. It simply gives room for the exchange of information in the form of ideas, wants, desires, feelings, actions and much more. Partial communication in relationships creates and builds a block that always leads to a break up.

If most of the time a lady avoids some topics in progress discussed between the two, the man may get affected negatively. Maybe the subject is about the number of kids they would like to have and the lady avoids it by simply saying she does not want kids.

A lady’s inattentiveness can put off a man. Some ladies want to be listened to their demands when they scantly do not give an ear to their men. It is good to be a good talker but be a good listener too before you cause heartbreak.

Some ladies are obsessed with the possession of materials. They will fish the pockets of their men just to have that new fashion cloth in the shops. When they want money, they do not expect a ‘NO’ answer. They will tend not to understand when the men fail to fulfill their demands.

They become too much lovers of money and material than to their men. Some men may not find it a big deal when their ladies ask for their money but how they spend it. Some will go to an extent of using it for alcohol consumption.

Too much pressure on men in this kind of relationships will hold them from continuing the journey of the relationship and eventually end it. This is because the money they gave is highly valued than the love the two share.

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