By Anne Mungai (@annemungai_)
Financial stability is something many women want in a man, but there are a few ladies who swear all they need is love, they scorn at fellow women who want financial independent men. This list is for all those women scared of being labelled gold-diggers. Follow these easy steps and lady luck will be smiling on you.
Look the part: Do not put any effort on your grooming after you step out of bed. You are not vain, so why would the outside matter if all you look for is someone’s heart, right? Don’t bother with your hair, eyebrows or nails. These are superficial stuff and I’m sure you are past that.
Hang out: Hang with the broke jobless men to snag yourself one. Men with a dream and career can be such a headache for you so don’t hang with one. You need someone who will help you take your life slow and in a romantic way. Someone to cook and clean for you the whole day if possible. These broke guys are often found in groups so make sure you single him out, befriend his friends and they will approve of you.
Don’t expect much: Don’t expect much or anything at all from your sweetheart. Do not encourage him to get a job or move out of his mom’s house. Doing so will only sabotage your relationship and you do not want that. Do not expect him to pay even a single bill of yours, doing so will weaken this relationship further. Share your income to maintain the relationship.
Conversation: You should never hold intelligent conversations with the man. Don’t discuss politics, Ebola or even the latest in sports. Doing so will only cause his head to spin and he will despise you. I’m sure this is not your end goal. Rather, discuss issues to do with ‘dunda’ ,alcohol, the upcoming 2 Chainz concert or even weed .Keep such conversations rolling and you will thank your creator.
There is nothing wrong with not wanting a man to take care of you’ve the woman you were meant to be, go make money and come spend it on him. For those women out there who want an independent man who has a job and a vision, there is absolutely wrong with that. photo:www.inticeonline.com