Single Mothers: Life is bigger than being a man's wife

Someone cheated all single mothers that it's very shameful not to have a man. It's the reason why their status seems like a transition towards getting a husband.

One Nyambura has shocked us all with her plea for a husband. The fact that she tags her daughter along shows us how some single mothers are desperate. While a few have beat this barrier, men still avoid marrying single mothers no matter. Many hang around for the benefits but move on to commit to young ladies without kids.

It's difficult and hurting for all single mothers. It’s for this reason that three in every five single mothers are as bitter as chloroquine tabs.

But the good news is that even if all single men refuse to marry single mothers, there's life. Life is bigger than being a man's wife. Not that it's out of bitterness or hopelessness. The writing is on the wall. Should all single mothers carry placards asking for husbands? The answer is No in capital letters.

We know of successful women who did not let their past define them and ye, the shoes they wear and their expensive cars can't allow them to stand for long hours with placards.

Single Mothers have raised successful children. They have been able to feed, clothe and educate their children single-handedly. Single mothers should therefore close their ears to all the hullabo and societal criticism from adulterers, fornicators and murderers who abort day and night.

While many single mothers are readily branded home wreckers or husband snatches,it should teach single mothers to keep off married men. Their sexual needs can be met by those mean single men or divorcees. Now that men have refused to marry single mothers, can they also deny them sex a basic adult need?