What having a threesome is actually like, according to people who've tried

Threesomes are real and people have them. A lot more people talk about having threesomes than have them, though. While enticing to many, turning one into reality is a tricky business.

There's no doubt that the idea is – even if not an option – interesting. Group sex is risque and adventurous. Below, people who have experienced a threesome reveal their thoughts. The people are anonymous and shared their stories on Whisper.

1. "Had my first threesome last night...I was into her more than him."

2. "I had my first threesome just to forget about my ex. I'm still sad but for a second I felt." wanted."

3. "I'm a flight attendant and had my first threesome with the captain and first officer."

4. "I just had my first threesome. I can hardly walk."

5. "My first threesome ended abruptly. It's like a horror film playing over and over in my mind."

6. "My first threesome was with my friend and his pregnant wife. After the baby was born we had skinny sex."

7. "My first threesome was a fail because I accidentally kicked the husband in the balls and we were unable to continue."

8. "My former roomie and me had our first threesome the other night and were so neurotic about it we wore matching panties."

9. "Just had my first threesome and the guy clearly liked my friend better so I just upped and left."

10. "My boyfriend and I just had our first threesome. I was excited and he was excited. The girl ended up being bad in bed but we still enjoyed the experience together."

11. "Had my first threesome. It was honestly the best experience and strangely helped my relationship."

12. "I had my first threesome last night. I'm seriously addicted and I want to try the swinging lifestlye."

13. "Had my first threesome last night with my long-term boyfriend and my long-term best friend. What. Have. I. Done?"

14. "Had my first threesome last night. Porn is so fake. That s*** is soooo difficult and so awkward."