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You caught him cheating on you? Yes. You confronted him and he accepted. Being a lady of dignity you did not quarrel but gave him all the proof of his deception. Since he is poor in lying anymore to you, he accepts and admits to it.

You feel betrayed and hurt to an extent that you want to break off from him.

To your surprise, he tells you he cannot break away from you. That he cannot let you go from his heart.

Here are some of the reasons why some men would not let go their ladies even when they have been caught cheating.

You are a unique lady

He might have dated a number of beautiful ladies. He might have stumbled over different types of women with different characters but once he met you, you proved to be so different. The way you behave, do your things and conduct yourself is the most stunning.  He fell in love with your character more than he did you.

Your character, your dressing code, your utterances and achievements makes you an exceptional. You are that simple lady who respects herself and sticks to her words. What you say you mean it. Your decision making capability is incomparable.

You are beautiful

Your physique is stunning. Your looks leave most men turning their heads as you pass by. But because he knows your heart too, you have beautiful heart.

You care, you understand him, you love him, you forgive him readily and most times you that calm lady who will not like to start a fight. However, be watchful. He might take that advantage to continuously dupe you.

The way you handle matters and relate with others makes him not to think of losing you even for a moment.

You are a clown

The jokes you crack, the humour you bring and the atmosphere you create when hanging out makes him want to be near you. You are a happy person who gets over anger easily. You are easy to get along with.

You are caring, loving and understanding

Most men will want to go with your likes of ladies. Ladies who care to know their whereabouts and understand them when they try to explain their conditions.

You are a committed lady, yes. That’s why it is difficult for him to let go.

You are an independent and ambitious lady

For this kind of lady you do not want to break off from her it is different. She is the kind who is struggling to clothe herself through her hard work. She might be having a work to do or rather she is involved in some income generating activities.

The man cannot let her go because sometimes she boosts him when he is broke.

When together you are the kind that does not dwell on love talks only. You try to bring in some future aspect. It can be business wise, career and the steps you are taking to make that happen.

At the same time, you are his major reason to why he got that attitude to achieve his goals no matter what. Being an ambitious lady will give him a challenge hence a reason to why he should work extra hard. No man will like his lady to be better than him otherwise due to the feeling of inferiority.

He truly loves you

Some of them may be honestly in love with you though some desires come in.

Nonetheless, if you believe he does not deserve you, move on

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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