Breakups can be emotionally turbulent and challenging to navigate, but maintaining a sense of awareness can help soften the blow and preserve dignity for all involved
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By Esther Muchene
Dec. 23, 2024
Breakups can be emotionally turbulent and challenging to navigate, but maintaining a sense of awareness can help soften the blow and preserve dignity for all involved
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By Faye Oruko
Dec. 22, 2024
I have a new boyfriend and I love him. But he wants us to be intimate and I don't. I'd like to have my own family one day, but right now I don't feel the need to be intimate with anyone
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By Chris Hart
Dec. 21, 2024
The festive season, for many, is a time to make merry, reconnect with loved ones and indulge, but for others, it is the end of the road for their romantic relationships
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By Purity Maina
Dec. 20, 2024
When one of my relationships starts to go wrong, I never know whether to stay or leave. Either way, I’m afraid I’ll make a mistake. Can you give me some guidelines?
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By Chris Hart
Dec. 19, 2024
I know my husband is a good man. I can trust him. But I never seem to know what’s going on in his life, and that worries me. So, how do I get him to open up when I suspect something’s wrong?
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By Chris Hart
Dec. 17, 2024
Long-distance relationships aren’t easy, but with the right attitude and a good sense of humour, they can be incredibly rewarding
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By Faye Oruko
Dec. 14, 2024
I’ve just found a new boyfriend and for the first time in my life I think he might be ‘the one’! So I find myself talking to him a lot more about myself. Should I tell him everything?
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By Chris Hart
Dec. 10, 2024
Everyone at work knows I’m married, but there’s a guy who all my colleagues call my work husband. Nothing goes on, just a lot of coffee and talking. So how do I get my colleagues to back off?
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By Chris Hart
Dec. 7, 2024
Power is determined by whoever earns more money. Whoever makes more money takes the lead in making financial decisions, which means more control
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By Kenyatta Otieno
Dec. 6, 2024
I have a new boyfriend and at first, he was just wonderful. And the best lover I’ve ever had. But lately, he’s got colder, puts off intimacy and keeps disappearing. What am I doing wrong?
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By Chris Hart
Dec. 3, 2024
It is still a man’s world despite ladies making great strides.
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By Kenyatta Otieno
Dec. 2, 2024
In today’s world of fast-paced communication, ghosting has become a silent, cowardly trend. Why communicate when you can just disappear?
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By Purity Maina
Nov. 29, 2024
When one of my relationships starts to go wrong, I never know whether to stay or leave. Either way, I’m afraid I’ll make a mistake and be full of regret later. Can you give me some guidelines?
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By Chris Hart
Nov. 23, 2024
More recently, red flags have been used to describe warning signs that reveal negative traits in someone or the general state of a relationship
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By Kenyatta Otieno
Nov. 22, 2024
I really don’t want to get married! But I’m coming under huge pressure from my family and my married friends! Is wanting to remain single such a bad idea?
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By Chris Hart
Nov. 21, 2024
Today, we find ourselves in a different landscape altogether. Welcome to the era of “hookup culture” and “situationships.”
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By Purity Maina
Nov. 4, 2024
If you are pondering on leaving a sexless relationship tactfully, here are most scenarios to keep in mind.
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By Ann Wairimu
Nov. 3, 2024
If people in no-sex marriages don’t manage the incompatibility between them, they might start to wonder when to walk away from a sexless marriage
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By Ann Wairimu
Nov. 1, 2024
Whichever way you choose to find a partner, it is clear that you will have to take risks. Choose your path wisely, because it is a jungle out here
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By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki
Oct. 31, 2024
I’m friends with a couple who have split up. I hear stories of old grudges - and somehow I’m supposed to take sides! But how can I choose one friend at the expense of the other?
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By Chris Hart
Oct. 29, 2024
We both work, so when I come home I expect my husband to help me with the children and dinner. It never happens, of course. So how do I get over my mounting disappointment?
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By Chris Hart
Oct. 26, 2024
If the man marries a woman in her early 20s when he is in his early 30s, then that is a recipe for chaos
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By Kenyatta Otieno
Oct. 25, 2024
I love my boyfriend and we’re really close, so I’ve decided to start having sex with him. But it’s going to be my first time and I’m afraid I’m going to mess everything up. Advice please!
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By Chris Hart
Oct. 19, 2024
My BF goes silent for days at a time, usually triggered by something I’ve said. His silence has ruined anniversaries, family celebrations and holidays. How do I make him stop?
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By Chris Hart
Oct. 12, 2024
Why do I fall in love with so many guys who are unavailable, like my best friend's new boyfriend? And it always ends badly. Will I ever have a 'normal' relationship?
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By Chris Hart
Oct. 8, 2024
When you get divorced, remaining friends is not so hard. Understand that falling out of love just means you no longer want to be intimate with them is key
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By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki
Oct. 4, 2024
This visual component of sexual pleasure plays a crucial role in understanding why people send nude photos.
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By Maryann Muganda
Sep. 30, 2024
I think I’m going crazy. My boyfriend has told me I’m too sensitive and overly emotional so many times that I’m starting to believe it. How can I get better?
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By Chris Hart
Sep. 28, 2024
All my married friends tell me I need to work on my marriage. But what does that even mean? I’m not sure I believe them. So what should I do?
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By Chris Hart
Sep. 25, 2024
I love dating, but I’m very bad at deciding which of my boyfriends to stick with. How can I tell who is likely to turn out to be good for me?
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By Chris Hart
Sep. 21, 2024
My boyfriend keeps saying that I don’t respect him. I think I do, but he’s never satisfied. So why does he make a big deal out of it?
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By Chris Hart
Sep. 17, 2024
While some of these signs could indicate sketchy behaviour, it's important not to jump to conclusions. He may just be going through a period of personal growth
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By Faye Oruko
Sep. 14, 2024
In whatever way you try to find a partner, there are risks involved. Choose your way wisely, because it is a jungle out here
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By Ciku Kimani
Sep. 13, 2024
Whenever I meet a nice guy and I fall for him, I worry that I will discover later that he’s already married. Because that’s happened to me several times! How do I avoid meeting another one?
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By Chris Hart
Sep. 12, 2024
I tease my boyfriend a lot! Just for fun, and I am sure he likes it. But my mum says I should be more respectful. Is that right? Am I wrong to tease him?
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By Chris Hart
Sep. 10, 2024
Maybe I'm cynical, but despite a successful life, every day feels pretty much the same. What can I do to make my life more memorable?
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By Chris Hart
Sep. 7, 2024
In whatever way you try to find a partner, there are risks involved. Choose your way wisely, because it is a jungle out here
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By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki
Sep. 6, 2024
If it is not working, happily move on. If the shoe no longer fits, get another shoe instead of folding your toes so that they can fit you
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By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki
Sep. 5, 2024
The family unit as we know it now has multifunctional bottoms with all stakeholders holding equal say and sway
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By Awuor Omino
Sep. 4, 2024
Long-distance relationships have a bit of a reputation. Some people think they’re doomed from the start, while others see them as the ultimate test of true love
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By Faye Oruko
Sep. 3, 2024
Why does my fiancé have such a desire for expensive designer items? I try to persuade him that we should save for the future, but he ignores me!
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By Chris Hart
Aug. 31, 2024
My boyfriends always seem to avoid defining things. I think it’s because they don’t want anything more than a casual date, but I want something more serious
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By Chris Hart
Aug. 27, 2024
People often get stuck in toxic relationships, and while it may seem baffling to outsiders, there’s a whole buffet of reasons why someone might choose to stay
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By Faye Oruko
Aug. 24, 2024
Where desire is concerned, we set no standards. We appreciate that we are equal to men and, in many cases, are more materially blessed than the men we desire
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By Awuor Omino
Aug. 23, 2024
If she talks of a small circle of friends who are introverts and don’t like meeting people or tells you she prefers her relationship private, that might be a red flag
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By Diana Makokha
Aug. 22, 2024
We’re forever being told to look out for red flags, and I get that. But red flags only identify the bad guys. How do I go beyond that to find positively lovely boyfriends?
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By Chris Hart
Aug. 17, 2024
Pairing is not only human nature, several other animals of lesser intelligence understand there is a need for warmth and company as we go through this life
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By Awuor Omino
Aug. 16, 2024
My fiance has been married before! So I’m really worried about how I will get on with his ex and their kids. Everyone tells me it’s a total nightmare
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By Chris Hart
Aug. 13, 2024
Most of my friends say they want to stay single. But my boyfriend is really lovely and I want to marry him! Are my friends right? Is marriage really such a risky idea these days?
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By Chris Hart
Aug. 11, 2024