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Building wealth with a single source of income may seem challenging, but it is achievable with the right strategies and mindset
I still love my husband, but we’re not as close as we used to be. I think it’s because we don’t put as much effort into our relationship as we should. How can we spice things up?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 27, 2024
Several of my friends have divorced, even though I thought they had everything going for them. Why do couples split up so much these days? How can I avoid their problems?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 26, 2024
Did you know that despite all the expert advice to look for ways to minimise the cost of travel, it will still cost you money one way or another
My husband and I used to be fantastic in bed. But it's become a very infrequent routine. I started neglecting intimacy when the kids were small. How do we get back on track?
I have a new boyfriend and I love him. But he wants us to be intimate and I don't. I'd like to have my own family one day, but right now I don't feel the need to be intimate with anyone
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 21, 2024
When one of my relationships starts to go wrong, I never know whether to stay or leave. Either way, I’m afraid I’ll make a mistake. Can you give me some guidelines?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 19, 2024
Maintaining a clean and hygienic home involves more than just wiping down the visible surfaces. It requires venturing into the often neglected nooks and crannies
Living
By Esther Muchene Dec. 18, 2024
Layering has taken on new dimensions, with oversized coats, voluminous skirts and statement jumpers paired in ways that reinforce personal expression
Everything was fine when we first got married, but our bedroom life has gradually become a war zone. Especially over ‘how often’. Is this how it’s going to be from now on?
Long-distance relationships aren’t easy, but with the right attitude and a good sense of humour, they can be incredibly rewarding
Relationships
By Faye Oruko Dec. 14, 2024
One of the remedies for hair loss is to maintain a balanced diet, which could be as simple as eating the right kind of fruit more often
Hair
By Esther Muchene Dec. 14, 2024
I’ve just found a new boyfriend and for the first time in my life I think he might be ‘the one’! So I find myself talking to him a lot more about myself. Should I tell him everything?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 10, 2024
Everyone at work knows I’m married, but there’s a guy who all my colleagues call my work husband. Nothing goes on, just a lot of coffee and talking. So how do I get my colleagues to back off?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 7, 2024
Power is determined by whoever earns more money. Whoever makes more money takes the lead in making financial decisions, which means more control
We have great expectations when we go on holiday. Unfortunately, despite our best efforts, things don't always go as planned and you need to be prepared
I have a new boyfriend and at first, he was just wonderful. And the best lover I’ve ever had. But lately, he’s got colder, puts off intimacy and keeps disappearing. What am I doing wrong?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 3, 2024
I recently saw a risque photo on my daughter's mobile phone! It's a boy from her school, I think, and a bit older than her - she's 14. This is serious, isn't it? What should I do?
Parenting
By Chris Hart Nov. 30, 2024
When one of my relationships starts to go wrong, I never know whether to stay or leave. Either way, I’m afraid I’ll make a mistake and be full of regret later. Can you give me some guidelines?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Nov. 23, 2024
If you thought Black Friday stampedes were intense, try observing the emotional chaos of someone trying to lock down a soulmate before December 25th
Living
By Purity Maina Nov. 22, 2024
More recently, red flags have been used to describe warning signs that reveal negative traits in someone or the general state of a relationship
Conflicts and fights are inevitable in relationships. Wherever people are, there has to be fire and it burns with sparks. So, why do couples fight?
Wellness
By Kenyatta Otieno Nov. 1, 2024
Whichever way you choose to find a partner, it is clear that you will have to take risks. Choose your path wisely, because it is a jungle out here
We both work, so when I come home I expect my husband to help me with the children and dinner. It never happens, of course. So how do I get over my mounting disappointment?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 26, 2024
If the man marries a woman in her early 20s when he is in his early 30s, then that is a recipe for chaos
I love my boyfriend and we’re really close, so I’ve decided to start having sex with him. But it’s going to be my first time and I’m afraid I’m going to mess everything up. Advice please!
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 19, 2024
In a world where men can summon pizza at the click of a button and meticulously build fantasy football teams, they just can’t muster the courage to text “It’s not you, it’s me”
Living
By Purity Maina Oct. 18, 2024
Most children are fussy eaters but with planning you can make mealtimes more enjoyable
Parenting
By Jayne Rose Gacheri Oct. 15, 2024
My BF goes silent for days at a time, usually triggered by something I’ve said. His silence has ruined anniversaries, family celebrations and holidays. How do I make him stop?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 12, 2024
We’ve become those married couples who ignore each other even when we’re in the same room! How do we go back to the days when we couldn’t keep our hands off each other?
Marriage Advice
By Chris Hart Oct. 9, 2024
Why do I fall in love with so many guys who are unavailable, like my best friend's new boyfriend? And it always ends badly. Will I ever have a 'normal' relationship?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 8, 2024
When you get divorced, remaining friends is not so hard. Understand that falling out of love just means you no longer want to be intimate with them is key
Ever wondered why you always fall for someone emotionally unavailable? Or why you overthink every text message until you’re convinced the relationship is doomed?
Living
By Faye Oruko Sep. 28, 2024
I think I’m going crazy. My boyfriend has told me I’m too sensitive and overly emotional so many times that I’m starting to believe it. How can I get better?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 28, 2024
Statement sleeves to cosmic prints, opulent lace and fluid silhouettes to retro influences reflect the desire for unbound self-expression
Love, lust, and limerence are distinct emotions that shape the human experience in unique ways
Living
By Lolita Bunde Sep. 26, 2024
All my married friends tell me I need to work on my marriage. But what does that even mean? I’m not sure I believe them. So what should I do?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 25, 2024
Colour blocking has transcended style to become a fascinating intersection of art, psychology and self-expression
I love dating, but I’m very bad at deciding which of my boyfriends to stick with. How can I tell who is likely to turn out to be good for me?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 21, 2024
Minimalism always has a way of dominating but that hasn’t stopped maximalists from emerging with this refreshing counterculture
When the men come, they first ask themselves how comes no other man saw such exquisite beauty. This makes the men to have second thoughts that there must be something fundamentally wrong with the lady
Living
By Kenyatta Otieno Sep. 20, 2024
Sunglasses do more than just protect your eyes from the sun. They’re an instant ticket to looking effortlessly cool
My boyfriend keeps saying that I don’t respect him. I think I do, but he’s never satisfied. So why does he make a big deal out of it?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 17, 2024
While some of these signs could indicate sketchy behaviour, it's important not to jump to conclusions. He may just be going through a period of personal growth
Relationships
By Faye Oruko Sep. 14, 2024
In whatever way you try to find a partner, there are risks involved. Choose your way wisely, because it is a jungle out here
Relationships
By Ciku Kimani Sep. 13, 2024
Success is a matter of making wise decisions. To be fully alive means to live on the edge by taking risks; starting the business, getting a degree or following that dream
Living
By Bishop David Muriithi Sep. 13, 2024
Whenever I meet a nice guy and I fall for him, I worry that I will discover later that he’s already married. Because that’s happened to me several times! How do I avoid meeting another one?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 12, 2024
Black tax is one of the reasons we care for our old, as opposed to bundling them together in old people’s homes where they only get to see family for a couple of hours a month if they are lucky
Living
By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki Sep. 12, 2024
Maintaining an ideal weight can be challenging in a world where diets and lifestyles are constantly changing. Here are some sustainable measures you can implement to address obesity effectively
Fitness
By Ryan Kerubo Sep. 11, 2024
I tease my boyfriend a lot! Just for fun, and I am sure he likes it. But my mum says I should be more respectful. Is that right? Am I wrong to tease him?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 10, 2024