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Between The Sheets
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I have a new boyfriend and I love him. But he wants us to be intimate and I don't. I'd like to have my own family one day, but right now I don't feel the need to be intimate with anyone
Relationships
By Chris Hart
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When one of my relationships starts to go wrong, I never know whether to stay or leave. Either way, I’m afraid I’ll make a mistake. Can you give me some guidelines?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
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Everything was fine when we first got married, but our bedroom life has gradually become a war zone. Especially over ‘how often’. Is this how it’s going to be from now on?
Between The Sheets
By Chris Hart
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Relationships
By Faye Oruko
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I’ve just found a new boyfriend and for the first time in my life I think he might be ‘the one’! So I find myself talking to him a lot more about myself. Should I tell him everything?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Dec. 10, 2024
Everyone at work knows I’m married, but there’s a guy who all my colleagues call my work husband. Nothing goes on, just a lot of coffee and talking. So how do I get my colleagues to back off?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
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Relationships
By Kenyatta Otieno
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I have a new boyfriend and at first, he was just wonderful. And the best lover I’ve ever had. But lately, he’s got colder, puts off intimacy and keeps disappearing. What am I doing wrong?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
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I recently saw a risque photo on my daughter's mobile phone! It's a boy from her school, I think, and a bit older than her - she's 14. This is serious, isn't it? What should I do?
Parenting
By Chris Hart
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When one of my relationships starts to go wrong, I never know whether to stay or leave. Either way, I’m afraid I’ll make a mistake and be full of regret later. Can you give me some guidelines?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
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Living
By Purity Maina
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Relationships
By Kenyatta Otieno
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Wellness
By Kenyatta Otieno
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Whichever way you choose to find a partner, it is clear that you will have to take risks. Choose your path wisely, because it is a jungle out here
Relationships
By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki
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Relationships
By Chris Hart
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Relationships
By Kenyatta Otieno
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Relationships
By Chris Hart
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Living
By Purity Maina
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My BF goes silent for days at a time, usually triggered by something I’ve said. His silence has ruined anniversaries, family celebrations and holidays. How do I make him stop?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Oct. 12, 2024
We’ve become those married couples who ignore each other even when we’re in the same room! How do we go back to the days when we couldn’t keep our hands off each other?
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By Chris Hart
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Why do I fall in love with so many guys who are unavailable, like my best friend's new boyfriend? And it always ends badly. Will I ever have a 'normal' relationship?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Oct. 8, 2024
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Relationships
By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki
Oct. 4, 2024
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Living
By Faye Oruko
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I think I’m going crazy. My boyfriend has told me I’m too sensitive and overly emotional so many times that I’m starting to believe it. How can I get better?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
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Love, lust, and limerence are distinct emotions that shape the human experience in unique ways
Living
By Lolita Bunde
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I love dating, but I’m very bad at deciding which of my boyfriends to stick with. How can I tell who is likely to turn out to be good for me?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Sep. 21, 2024
When the men come, they first ask themselves how comes no other man saw such exquisite beauty. This makes the men to have second thoughts that there must be something fundamentally wrong with the lady
Living
By Kenyatta Otieno
Sep. 20, 2024
My boyfriend keeps saying that I don’t respect him. I think I do, but he’s never satisfied. So why does he make a big deal out of it?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Sep. 17, 2024
While some of these signs could indicate sketchy behaviour, it's important not to jump to conclusions. He may just be going through a period of personal growth
Relationships
By Faye Oruko
Sep. 14, 2024
In whatever way you try to find a partner, there are risks involved. Choose your way wisely, because it is a jungle out here
Relationships
By Ciku Kimani
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Whenever I meet a nice guy and I fall for him, I worry that I will discover later that he’s already married. Because that’s happened to me several times! How do I avoid meeting another one?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Sep. 12, 2024
I tease my boyfriend a lot! Just for fun, and I am sure he likes it. But my mum says I should be more respectful. Is that right? Am I wrong to tease him?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Sep. 10, 2024
Maybe I'm cynical, but despite a successful life, every day feels pretty much the same. What can I do to make my life more memorable?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Sep. 7, 2024
Giving too much to someone who expects you to pretend you are not emotionally attached is why situationships always end in tears for women
Living
By La Patrona
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In whatever way you try to find a partner, there are risks involved. Choose your way wisely, because it is a jungle out here
Relationships
By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki
Sep. 6, 2024
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Living
By Kenyatta Otieno
Sep. 5, 2024
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Relationships
By Faye Oruko
Sep. 3, 2024
Why does my fiancé have such a desire for expensive designer items? I try to persuade him that we should save for the future, but he ignores me!
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Aug. 31, 2024
Experts warn that silent treatment is a scourge at the heart of many family squabbles and eventual breakups
Living
By Peter Muiruri
Aug. 28, 2024
My boyfriends always seem to avoid defining things. I think it’s because they don’t want anything more than a casual date, but I want something more serious
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Aug. 27, 2024
If she talks of a small circle of friends who are introverts and don’t like meeting people or tells you she prefers her relationship private, that might be a red flag
Relationships
By Diana Makokha
Aug. 22, 2024
We’re forever being told to look out for red flags, and I get that. But red flags only identify the bad guys. How do I go beyond that to find positively lovely boyfriends?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Aug. 17, 2024
Any relationship whose foundation is love, shouldn’t be instant because as they say, love grows. On the contrary, dating apps and hook-ups in the present day have made relationships instant
Living
By Diana Makokha
Aug. 15, 2024
My fiance has been married before! So I’m really worried about how I will get on with his ex and their kids. Everyone tells me it’s a total nightmare
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Aug. 13, 2024
Most of my friends say they want to stay single. But my boyfriend is really lovely and I want to marry him! Are my friends right? Is marriage really such a risky idea these days?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Aug. 11, 2024
With a little self-awareness and emotional maturity, even the most frisky people can blossom into relationship rockstars
Relationships
By Faye Oruko
Aug. 10, 2024
A mere toy won’t, can’t take anything away from a couple’s sexual relationship. If anything, it will spice up and spark an otherwise dull union
Relationships
By Diana Makokha
Aug. 8, 2024
I’m very well off, with a good job, a wild social life, lots of internet friends and everything I could need. So why am I always so dissatisfied?
Wellness
By Chris Hart
Aug. 4, 2024
Every new man I meet seems nice at first, but somehow I always end up getting hurt. Why are there so many bad guys out there, and why are they picking on me?
Relationships
By Chris Hart
Aug. 3, 2024