Seven ways to be more romantic with your man

Relationships usually require effort from both sides. Most men pride themselves in making their wives or girlfriends happy but, sometimes, the effort needs to be reciprocated too.

Considering that many men are of a few words, rarely will they tell you when their needs are not being met. And, if you truly claim to love this man, making him happy should be one of your top priorities. For once, let it be about him. Here are seven amazing secrets to learn if you want to be more romantic with your man in 2020.

Learn his love language

Love languages basically reflect how people like to be treated in relationships. They include acts of service, words of affirmation and physical touch. It’s important to learn what he appreciates the most.

If you know he specifically likes acts of service more than receiving gifts, centre your attention on that and this will deepen the spark. Be all-rounded and appreciate him in different ways, but pay more attention to what he likes most to win him over.

Tell him you appreciate him

Men work hard for the woman they love. It’s good for their manly ego when they manage to impress their partner. Also, they value your feedback as a sign that they’re doing something right so it’s good to verbalize your appreciation even when their efforts backfire.

When he makes an effort to change certain behaviours, tell him you’re proud of him. When he buys a new cologne and puts more effort into how he looks, let him know that you’ve noticed. These are small but very impactful ways to make him feel noticed by the one woman he adores the most.

Cook for him

It’s no secret that men love to eat. It’s even more special and intimate when you cook for him and surprise him with his favourite meal once in a while. Even if you’re not the best chef out there, he’ll definitely appreciate the effort you have put by doing your best to impress him.

Look good for him

You can make things more romantic in the relationship by simply dressing up for him. Men are visual and they love it when their partners put effort into how they look. Looking good for him will show him that you are dedicated to the relationship and that you want to impress him. If you’ve been more focused on the kids of late, take some time off to focus on yourself for your own sake and for the sake of your partner. It will pay off, trust me. 

Open up to him

There’s nothing more romantic than being emotionally intimate with your man. It gives room for open and honest communication and it shows that you trust him enough to be yourself around him. Being emotionally intimate with your partner will help strengthen your bond while helping you to offload some emotional baggage as well.

Give him time with the boys

Men can often feel suffocated by a relationship and feel like they have lost their sense of independence. In long term relationships, especially, couples spend so much time together which isn’t a bad thing. Still, it’s also important to let them have time with the boys once in a while. It’ll help them feel trusted, which is very important.

Give him space once in a while and you’ll be surprised by how much he will appreciate this different form of romance. He’ll realize how much he missed you and value the time you spend together.

Show him love in the bedroom

The intimacy of sex is vital in relationships. It’s a bond between two partners that should be kept sacred. It brings a lot of meaning to relationships because it shows love, dedication and trust. For men, it’s also an indicator that their partner is happy.

When you are dedicated to making him happy in the bedroom, he becomes more motivated in the relationship. It’s definitely a great way to rekindle the spark and romance.