During chama, when they see your househelp, they always tease: "You still have this Kamba girl. What charm have you given her?"

Last weekend, I did something I rarely do - checking on hubby at the kinyozi. Given how boring kinyozis can be, I assumed this was a horrible idea. But it was a real eye opener.

Other than her looks Makena is also thriving in her career and most importantly she has a heart of gold. And with all this awesomeness, she wants to settle as a second wife? Something is totally amiss.

When your good house help drops the bombshell

“Kwani what do you women do when you go for those things?”

Mike was every woman’s desire on campus. Tall, chocolate charming to a fault and impossibly handsome. All my friends used to wonder, “how did you get that catch?”

For the two months I have been with her, she has impressed me. Sadly, it appears that I am not the only one who has been enjoying her services. And there is evidence.

My friend Wandia is a real free soul. I called her because she is the kind of earthquake I needed to get back my self-confidence. I needed that awakening because my crankiness was trickling down to everybody from hubby to the kids and the cat.

Facebook, Messenger, Instagram, WhatsApp have broken walls and boundaries in ways that are mind-boggling, even the erstwhile non cheaters are realising they have to stand strong, lest they should be swept by the wave of cheating.

The dolls are targeted for lonely hearts like widowers and single men who do not know how to make human relations. So far, the creator says the interest in these dolls is encouraging and he cannot meet the demand from different parts of the world, Africa included.

In every workplace, there are office couples. These are two colleagues who though married, are romantically involved with each other and it is an open secret.

For some reason, relatives especially from the man’s side of the divide have some sense of entitlement because they assume their bro is the breadwinner. Since they know their brother foots the giant share of the bills, when he is away, they think they can devolve his power.

Like I have mentioned here before, Petro as we call her, landed in my house after my one of a kind house help Eshe, left for Uganda in August just before elections. Eshe is the kind of house help made in heaven. I miss her terribly because she brought a heavenly sense of peace, order and joy in my house.

I have a lot of respect for women who sacrifice their careers to take care of their kids. I think they deserve hats off. But there are some idle busy bodies tainting the name of this noble calling. I will give you a real example.