Men,like women,also became desperate for marriage.They reach
a certain age where their relatives and friends keep
asking when they will get married.
With the pressure,responsibility and deep commitment
that proper marriage requires,most men opt for come we stay
Marriages. Here are the tricks that men use to trap naive
women into this bogus marriages.
1. Let's live together.
When a man says that the two of you should live
together but escapes the word marriage,run like Rudisha. There's a big difference between living together and
getting married. College students live together all the time
and marriage only flirts in their mind. While women are loyal
and take this live together arrangement seriously, the man
doesn't. He keeps chatting with his ex on WhatsApp, takes some
new catch out for lunch and before you know it he's
complaining about this woman. He lies that the woman is clingy and wants to trap him with marriage.
2. Let's Have a baby. Men know that women who love them will
not hesitate to have a baby with them. They know how showing
interest in fatherhood knocks many women off their feet. To
naive women, they interpret it as a green card to
marriage. Many forget that a man who hasn't married you
legally and is committed to stay can walk away any time. With
a baby, many women are trapped and start reciting exhausted
tales like"I am staying because of the kids".
3. Introduces you to his relatives
Who cursed poor women that if a man introduces you to his
relatives and friends then he will marry you? Sly men do that
to trap you and make you feel safe with them. When the introduction is in an informal setting and he keeps
saying you will plan for an official visit, run girl. His
mother's calls will pull the strings of your cold
and dark heart. You can decide to stay imagining you are loved. You will choke to know that this man
introduces every Jane, Jill and Linda to his family.
4. Weddings are expensive
What this means is that being committed to you is very
expensive. They therefore prefer the cheaper option of having
you cheaply with no formalities. If weddings are expensive, we
have civil and traditional weddings. Women who pretend to be
understanding to their men end up in this undefined unions.
5. Overdependent on his woman.This are men who act like without you, they will drop
dead. Green light! It's a come we stay alert. They can't wash
their clothes and press them unless you come over or you call
mama nguo. They insist that they find cooking very tedious. For
this matter, you have to cook and keep a week's food in the refrigerator. Like a woman in love, you will feel like
his mama yet you aren't. That's exactly how he wants to make
you feel. You will imagine you are needed. Before long, he will trick you into come we
stay and you will swallow the bait.
How men trap women into come we stay marriages
Living
By Agnes Sikuku| 8 years ago | 3 Min read
.
Trending Now
- My daddy is my lover: He broke my virginity
- Fitness: Weightlifting gave me a purpose
- Three red flags that say end a relationship
- Some men in our lives are sent by the devil
- The nudes you post will haunt you when you are older
- Red flags: Knowing when to hold on and when to run away
- Here is what men with huge manhoods have to deal with
- Three red flags that say end a relationship
- Why dads sleep with their daughters
- Oprah Winfrey reveals weight-loss medication use, says she's 'done with shaming'
.
Popular this week
- Three red flags that say end a relationship
- My daddy is my lover: He broke my virginity
- Top women in film
- I slept with my sister's husband while she was away and can't stop thinking about it
- Trends: Skirting the midi
- Seema: Why health is wealth
- Easy recipe: Sauteed kebabs
- Why dads sleep with their daughters
- 10 health benefits of eating bananas during pregnancy
- It must be the sex, definitely
.
Similar Articles
.
Latest Articles
.