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Dating

Conflicts and fights are inevitable in relationships. Wherever people are, there has to be fire and it burns with sparks. So, why do couples fight?
Wellness
By Kenyatta Otieno Nov. 1, 2024
Whichever way you choose to find a partner, it is clear that you will have to take risks. Choose your path wisely, because it is a jungle out here
We both work, so when I come home I expect my husband to help me with the children and dinner. It never happens, of course. So how do I get over my mounting disappointment?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 26, 2024
If the man marries a woman in her early 20s when he is in his early 30s, then that is a recipe for chaos
I love my boyfriend and we’re really close, so I’ve decided to start having sex with him. But it’s going to be my first time and I’m afraid I’m going to mess everything up. Advice please!
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 19, 2024
In a world where men can summon pizza at the click of a button and meticulously build fantasy football teams, they just can’t muster the courage to text “It’s not you, it’s me”
Living
By Purity Maina Oct. 18, 2024
My BF goes silent for days at a time, usually triggered by something I’ve said. His silence has ruined anniversaries, family celebrations and holidays. How do I make him stop?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 12, 2024
We’ve become those married couples who ignore each other even when we’re in the same room! How do we go back to the days when we couldn’t keep our hands off each other?
Marriage Advice
By Chris Hart Oct. 9, 2024
Why do I fall in love with so many guys who are unavailable, like my best friend's new boyfriend? And it always ends badly. Will I ever have a 'normal' relationship?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 8, 2024
When you get divorced, remaining friends is not so hard. Understand that falling out of love just means you no longer want to be intimate with them is key
Ever wondered why you always fall for someone emotionally unavailable? Or why you overthink every text message until you’re convinced the relationship is doomed?
Living
By Faye Oruko Sep. 28, 2024
I think I’m going crazy. My boyfriend has told me I’m too sensitive and overly emotional so many times that I’m starting to believe it. How can I get better?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 28, 2024
Love, lust, and limerence are distinct emotions that shape the human experience in unique ways
Living
By Lolita Bunde Sep. 26, 2024
I love dating, but I’m very bad at deciding which of my boyfriends to stick with. How can I tell who is likely to turn out to be good for me?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 21, 2024
When the men come, they first ask themselves how comes no other man saw such exquisite beauty. This makes the men to have second thoughts that there must be something fundamentally wrong with the lady
Living
By Kenyatta Otieno Sep. 20, 2024
My boyfriend keeps saying that I don’t respect him. I think I do, but he’s never satisfied. So why does he make a big deal out of it?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 17, 2024
While some of these signs could indicate sketchy behaviour, it's important not to jump to conclusions. He may just be going through a period of personal growth
Relationships
By Faye Oruko Sep. 14, 2024
In whatever way you try to find a partner, there are risks involved. Choose your way wisely, because it is a jungle out here
Relationships
By Ciku Kimani Sep. 13, 2024
Whenever I meet a nice guy and I fall for him, I worry that I will discover later that he’s already married. Because that’s happened to me several times! How do I avoid meeting another one?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 12, 2024
I tease my boyfriend a lot! Just for fun, and I am sure he likes it. But my mum says I should be more respectful. Is that right? Am I wrong to tease him?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 10, 2024
Maybe I'm cynical, but despite a successful life, every day feels pretty much the same. What can I do to make my life more memorable?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 7, 2024
Giving too much to someone who expects you to pretend you are not emotionally attached is why situationships always end in tears for women
Living
By La Patrona Sep. 6, 2024
In whatever way you try to find a partner, there are risks involved. Choose your way wisely, because it is a jungle out here
A new breed of men is now targeting pretty women with disposable income. They sniff the women from their social media posts
Living
By Kenyatta Otieno Sep. 5, 2024
Long-distance relationships have a bit of a reputation. Some people think they’re doomed from the start, while others see them as the ultimate test of true love
Relationships
By Faye Oruko Sep. 3, 2024
Why does my fiancé have such a desire for expensive designer items? I try to persuade him that we should save for the future, but he ignores me!
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 31, 2024
Experts warn that silent treatment is a scourge at the heart of many family squabbles and eventual breakups
Living
By Peter Muiruri Aug. 28, 2024
My boyfriends always seem to avoid defining things. I think it’s because they don’t want anything more than a casual date, but I want something more serious
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 27, 2024
If she talks of a small circle of friends who are introverts and don’t like meeting people or tells you she prefers her relationship private, that might be a red flag
Relationships
By Diana Makokha Aug. 22, 2024
We’re forever being told to look out for red flags, and I get that. But red flags only identify the bad guys. How do I go beyond that to find positively lovely boyfriends?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 17, 2024
Any relationship whose foundation is love, shouldn’t be instant because as they say, love grows. On the contrary, dating apps and hook-ups in the present day have made relationships instant
Living
By Diana Makokha Aug. 15, 2024
My fiance has been married before! So I’m really worried about how I will get on with his ex and their kids. Everyone tells me it’s a total nightmare
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 13, 2024
Most of my friends say they want to stay single. But my boyfriend is really lovely and I want to marry him! Are my friends right? Is marriage really such a risky idea these days?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 11, 2024
With a little self-awareness and emotional maturity, even the most frisky people can blossom into relationship rockstars
Relationships
By Faye Oruko Aug. 10, 2024
A mere toy won’t, can’t take anything away from a couple’s sexual relationship. If anything, it will spice up and spark an otherwise dull union
Relationships
By Diana Makokha Aug. 8, 2024
I’m very well off, with a good job, a wild social life, lots of internet friends and everything I could need. So why am I always so dissatisfied? 
Wellness
By Chris Hart Aug. 4, 2024
Every new man I meet seems nice at first, but somehow I always end up getting hurt. Why are there so many bad guys out there, and why are they picking on me?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 3, 2024
A mere toy won’t, can’t take anything away from a couple’s sexual relationship. If anything, it will spice up and spark an otherwise dull union
Relationships
By Diana Makokha Aug. 2, 2024
Not every red flag in a man means running away, sometimes the red flag is just a beige flag that does not necessarily cause harm but needs to be watched
Relationships
By Faye Oruko Jul. 30, 2024
We have been swapping war stories in the office, and I have begun to realise just how risky dating can be! How can girls stay safe when they’re with someone new?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 27, 2024
I have had a lot of boyfriends over the years, and fallen in love with them all! Sometimes two at a time. Why can’t I settle with just one man?
Living
By Chris Hart Jul. 27, 2024
I make my way in life and am lucky to have a husband who agrees. But lately, I have been in a bit of a funk in my marriage, especially in bed. Especially in bed. What's gone wrong?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 20, 2024
First dates can be nerve-wracking, but with the right approach, they can be a launchpad for a great connection
Relationships
By Faye Oruko Jul. 18, 2024
Lately, I have started wanting to be in a more committed relationship, but it’s not happening. I still find myself unsure of every new man. What am I doing wrong?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 13, 2024
I’m getting married soon, to a nice man. And please don’t laugh, but I’m getting worried about my wedding night! What can I do to make sure everything goes well?
Marriage Advice
By Chris Hart Jul. 13, 2024
As a young man, dating can be overwhelming, but fear not! We've got your back with a comprehensive list of dos and don'ts to make sure your first date is a roaring success
Relationships
By Faye Oruko Jul. 12, 2024
A lot of my friends are getting married and I’m feeling left behind. Despite having a lovely boyfriend! But somehow I just don’t feel ready to take such an important step. But will I ever?
Living
By Chris Hart Jul. 9, 2024
I know lots of married couples who aren’t happy together. They all seemed so in love, so what’s going wrong with marriage nowadays?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 9, 2024
I am so confused! Why do I pick the men I do? And how can I tell when I am ready to marry?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 3, 2024
Someone told me the other day that monogamy’s quite uncommon around the world. Is that true? Is there any point in trying to find a faithful man?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jun. 29, 2024