A teacher who cheated wit 300 women after his girlfriend granted him an 'infidelity pass' says the move saved their relationship.
David Guerrero, 30, from Tottenham in north London, has been in a open relationship with dancer Laura Noah for four years. The couple were together for six years before David told her if she did not agree to open relationship he would leave.
Speaking to The Sun, David said he was tempted to have an affair and decided he needed to 'sow his wild oats'.He said: "One night over dinner I told her I still loved her but I wanted to have sex with other women. She burst into tears and asked, 'am I not enough?' [...] It was horrible but felt like a huge weight had been lifted. I was bored. I needed someone else to light my fire."
After a fortnight thinking it over, he says Laura agreed but at first she wanted to also be involved in his illicit romps.
After tracking a willing woman down online, he had sex with her but when Laura joined in "it was a bit strange". And swinging didn't work for him either so he told his partner of six years he wanted to go solo with his hook-ups because he "needed that freedom".
He's not settled into a routine of cheating on Laura.
"In the space of four years I have slept with more than 300 different women and usually see three each week," he says in The Sun.
He even chats girls up when he's out with Laura on nights out.
Laura likewise has the freedom to sleep around and the couple say there are "no lies, no sneaking around and no betrayal". Laura wrote that she was "frightened" at first but didn't want to trap her boyfriend or take his freedom.
She says the open relationship now makes her a "modern woman" and David's affairs have given her freedom too.