Why older women believe ‘baru baru’ boys are good in bed

By The Nairobian Reporter | 6yrs ago | 2 min read

Elderly women fall for young men to fulfil fantasies. That’s according to a city psychologist.

James Mbugua, a counselling psychologist at Mt Kenya University told the Nairobian that elderly women go for young men as most are deemed to be good in bed by women.

As for the young men, such relationships promise good returns in the form of monetary rewards.

Mbugua explains that elderly women are “caught up in a midlife crisis and have a lot of money. Unlike men whose sex urge sinks with age, women’s hormones change with age, thus the older they get, the higher the sex thirst that can only be quenched by young men.”

He adds: “These women also have freedom and money to spend while their husbands are busy with other things. With time, they discover good sex from men young enough to be their grandchildren.”

Mbugua observes that young men don’t want to work hard thus they easily fall for easy money and leave their female age mates lonely.

He explains that this is the reason why a number of young women opt to be single mothers because they are left with no one to love tem/.

As for young men, they find it hard to stay in stable relationships in future, having gotten used to being treated like kids yet they are grown-ups.

Says Mbugua: “It is becoming a tricky situation now. With time these kinds of relationships moulds criminals out of the young men who are not used to working hard for a living.”