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Marrying a man in the army can be the best thing that can happen to a woman. The prestige and social benefits of marrying them far outweigh the demerits.
There has been bad vibe about the army officers. People have been spreading falsehoods that they are womanizers. Some say that when angry, they can even kill you. Today ,I come bearing good news. It's about how sweet it is to marry a soldier.
To begin with, being called "bibi ya mwanajeshi" does not only roll out sweetly but also shows masculinity in it. Compare that with "bibi ya mwalimu".There's nothing special in that. One day, we shall highlight the pitfalls of marrying teachers.
People fear army officers’ homes. This therefore means that you will be guaranteed of security. Looters and drunkards in the village or estate will not loiter near your homestead. When you are blessed with baby girls, men will fear hitting on them and talking crap about them.
Since the army officers have uniforms and usually stay in the barracks, it means you have plenty of free time. No waking up at dawn to prepare breakfast, press mzee's clothes and check his phone when he is in the bathroom.
You can sleep as long as you want. All you have to do is give the maid orders here and there. The absence of mzee for long periods means plenty of gossiping time. You can always visit your girlfriends or have them visit you. You can gossip, eat popcorns and watch all the series and soap operas. The series Army wives will be a story of your life. Lest I forget, there are no quarrels over the remote with baba watoto.
When he finally comes home, you will be slapped with goodies like: biscuits, canned meat, fish, fruits and beans. All these will make you the envy of other wives in the village or the estate. Where can a teacher, doctor, journalist or accountant husband get such goodies? Let's not forget the shopping privileges at Afco.
Since mzee is home and not going to work, you will have plenty of time together. You will just have to cut down on your gossip and be home like a good wife. I hope all girls marry army men and forever enjoy the fruits of their labour and the protection they offer.
