Your man’s sudden love for the gym could signal that he’s cheating

 Man working out at the gym

It is no secret that ladies prefer muscles. We can’t help but get attracted to muscular guys like moths to light. There is something in our psyche that leads to this.

Apart from the aesthetic pleasure muscles offer, we like the idea of our significant other working for the betterment of his mental health.

Having said this, you probably shouldn’t be delighted if your partner suddenly becomes obsessed with fitness, especially if he is in his thirties or older.

This sudden enthusiasm for the gym could be spelling doom for your relationship because more often than not, gym could mean he’s geared towards cheating.

There is an interesting connection between fitness and infidelity. First of all, most men don’t work out because they are conscious of their health.

To them, the health benefits of exercising are secondary, men are just as shallow and vain as women.

They work out because they know it will increase their attractiveness to women. So, if your husband who is in his mid-thirties is suddenly interested in losing his potbelly and building up some muscle, he is trying to look more attractive for somebody.

The thing is, you as his wife or long term partner already made peace with his slothful, unhealthy lifestyle and he knows it so he is definitely not working out to be more attractive to you. There is somebody else in the picture.

The thing about middle-aged men is that when they seek out an affair, they do not chase after women their age. They go after the young nubile ladies in their late teens and early twenties.

Now baba Kamau knows he has to step up his game to keep up with his libidinous mistress in the bedroom.

He starts to take an interest in the gym and watching what he eats and before you know it you have a 35-year-old man sweating it out at the gym seven days a week.

Besides keeping him in a tip-top shape the gym also provides a great alibi for him when he wants to sneak out to go eat the forbidden fruit.

The ‘working late’ excuse is old and has become a cliché. Besides, women are not falling for it anymore. But tell a woman you are going to the gym and she won’t be any the wiser.

So when your man says he is sweating it out at the gym, he might not be in the gym at all but getting that intense full body work out alright: in bed with his mistress.

The other reason why you should not be too thrilled about your man hitting the gym is because the gym is teeming with temptations.

Even if your man’s sudden gym habit has nothing to do with wanting to cheat, once he is there, he will most likely go down that route.

The gym is full of sexy, hot girls in tight booty shorts and workout bras doing suggestive butt and leg exercises!  So, ladies, beware of these gym obsessed middle-aged men. They are never up to any good. Question their motives and even offer to join them in their workouts to make sure that they are not actually two-timing you.

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