My hubby kisses me like he is siphoning out diesel, help me

By Dr Cupid | 6yrs ago | 3 min read

My new boyfriend is a terrible kisser! We have a great relationship and the sex is also great, but I can’t stand his kisses. I love being kissed, but with him I find myself avoiding make-out sessions.

He is way too rough and uses a lot of saliva and it makes me uncomfortable. He has started to notice that I avoid his kisses and I don’t know what to tell him. Please help! Jacky

Dear Jacky, Unfortunately, there is no right way or wrong way of kissing. What is disgusting to one person might be a turn on to another.

The only way to be on the same page with your partner is talk about it. Tell him what you like and don’t like and take it from there.

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I am a stay-at-home mom and I found out that my husband has been cheating on me with multiple women throughout our relationship. I confronted him and he promised to change, but I recently found evidence that he is cheating on me again.

I am fed up and want to leave, but I can’t because of my son. I don’t want to be a single mom, but I also don’t want to stay with a cheater. What should I do? Dora, Nairobi

Dear Dora, Don’t stay in an unhealthy relationship just because you are afraid of being a single mum. Raising a child on your own is not the worst thing in the world. I am sure you have family and friends who will be there to support you. You will be just fine.

My new catch is poor with texts, it’s annoying, help

I recently started seeing a new guy and I really like him. The problem is that he is very busy and I don’t get to see him as much as I would like and on top of that he is horrible with text messages. I’m used to chatting daily with guys I date but with him it is different. Does his lack of enthusiasm means he is just not good at texting or he is not that into me? Gladys. Kajiado

Dear Gladys, Are you in campus? Some girls assume life is about chatting, tweeting and sharing social media memes and forwards.

In these hard economic times, men are ever busy eking out a living. Pecks, hugs and kisses don’t pay rent or buy unga.

Lucky you, you have a man with a job. Some girls are stuck with jobless men who clobber them senseless.

I pay all bills since my live-in boyfriend has no income

I am a 26-year-old lady living with my boyfriend who is 29. I have a good job while my boyfriend is a creative who doesn’t have a regular income.

My friends and family disapprove of the relationship because they think he is taking advantage of me. I also don’t mind giving him money when he needs it.

Are my friends and family old-fashioned in their opinions about a woman providing for a man or do they have a point? Sheila, Mombasa

Dear Sheila, There is nothing wrong with a woman being the breadwinner. However, since he is also working, it is reasonable to expect him to contribute to some things when he can.

What does he do with his money? No matter how little his earnings are compared to yours, he should make a contribution.