The rise of mpango wa kandoism: Ladies, useless padlocks are opened by any key

“Babe nipatie pesa za kulipa rent!” Honestly?

• The boy child in Kenya is under threat of never ever being able to even meet a virgin on the streets!
• Small girls are now dating rich married men despising the sruggling boy child who has no time for “babe nipatie pesa za kulipa rent'' attitude
• The challenge to the boy child is to learn loyalty. You are not the first people to discover sex, so sleeping around doesn’t make you a hero

 I have permission from my Facebook friend Wesley Charo Mdawida to repost part of his opinion on the new generation of women:

Just realised that most ladies love being mpango wa kandos and having secret relationships on the side for financial and sexual gains unlike men who only cheat as an act of charity to a lady in need of a man’s company.

All along, I thought Team Mafisi is the only ruling party in our society, but I’m in shock to see the high number of ladies defending immorality, prostitution and mpango wa kandoism!

There’s a Somali proverb that says, “A key that opens all locks is a master key, but a padlock that can be opened with any key is a useless padlock”.

The boy child in Kenya is now under serious threat of never ever being able to date, marry or even meet a virgin on the streets!

Small girls are now dating rich married men despising the struggling boy child who has no time for “babe nipatie pesa za kulipa rent”! Honestly, life is tough for any man searching for a beautiful wife material lady to marry.

It is like looking for a place to dock in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean. The society we live in today is undoubtedly the best definition of moral decay.

Those who sit next to the pulpit in churches are ironically the first to support immortality and unethical deeds that contradict all they waste their time listening to in churches.

God is wise. He looked at human beings and said no man is perfect including Catholic Popes. He later said through Jesus Christ that let him who is without sin cast the first stone.

 God did not contradict Himself when He gave the imperfect men the responsibility of preaching purity to society.

You cannot say that priests and bishops have no right to guide you because, just like you, they are all sinners.

 A man who peddles cocaine would never wish to see his children or siblings taking the substance. It’s human nature to preach water and drink wine. That’s how the world is. Very few are clean but no one in their right senses would preach dirt in public.

I’m one of those guys who’ve never dated a gold digger. I’m so used to principled and independent women I find it hard to accept that other women should be free to sell off their dignity to rich older men in exchange for cash when still in their youth.

Many women spend their youth partying, tattooing, piercing, drinking, having fun and travelling with sponsors across the world sleeping in expensive hotels only to rant on Facebook later that all men are dogs when they finally realize no one wants to marry a woman with tattoos all over their bodies, drunks and who don’t respect themselves.

In Swahili we say “wanaume tunajipenda”. That’s true. No one would like to marry a woman who used to date a 50-year-old married man, slept in lodges or aborted as routine exercise.

 I would therefore like to sign off by saluting the well-cultured women out there who would rather be called “mshamba” than sell off their dignity for short-term pleasures.

These are the women whom men can catch a grenade for. Not all women support prostitution and immorality.

Josephine Ali Mwanyalo said she would not date an older man even though loyalty from young men is rare nowadays and further wondered where future husbands will come from.

That is the challenge to the boy child to learn loyalty. You are not the first people to discover sex so sleeping around doesn’t make you a hero but a laughing stock.

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