Something happened the other day, as I thought I came up something that might seem unfamiliar to many. Two men in western, Ingwe, land of strong men decided to swap wives. Lately, the land of omwamis had a share of good news. First, it was Wafula and the Indian girl that made the famous Jamaican singer record a song featuring our brothers from western in search of Wafula. Unlucky for our brother, the relationship barely lasted a year thanks to the social and difference life standard. The girl was ready to love but as it is said {mkono mtupu haulambwi}, an empty hand cannot feed, was enough to send our sister from another race out of Ingwe land. For our own James bond, we have new games application on our smartphones and jobs created.
Back to our men, it was amazing to see how the watchman and bodaboda rider agreed to swap wives and the local authority was involved. The village chief acted wisely and spared us a story of bloodshed; this might make women go crazy but might sound as a warning to those who accept to be lured to bed by greedy men for sex. There are many reasons that make a man not perform, the most common is stress that can be cured by a wise woman. Read the story of Esther in the bible, she was the most favored queen by the king but her approach was wise. I don't want to judge but I think no modern woman could have done that considering the fact that she could have ordered the king to kill Harman and he couldn't have hesitated, rather she chose the long but winning way that eventually made her more powerful and respected giving glory and victory to Israelites.
Because of unavoidable circumstances to some men, few greedy men have taken the advantages of the situation and have taken away beloved mothers to their kids leaving them empty, broken, hurt and heart fallen. When a woman especially a wife sleeps with another man, the society has always laid a finger on the woman forgetting the fact it takes two to tangle.
When some men wanted to stone the adulterous woman in the bible, Jesus wrote down and asked them whoever had not sinned be the first to throw the stone, literary Jesus was asking the whereabouts of the man who was caught in the act with her. One by one they left and disappeared into thin air. That is the reflection of the justice in the world, half-baked.
This might be outrageous but might sound reasoning. Whatever it might be, if you are married and you find it good to have another man's wife, it will be a fair justice if there are the mutual agreements and both parties agree including the women concerned instead of killing and end up in jail, we borrow that wise decision from the land of Ingwe.
At the end of the day, whatever sweetness that you find out there, you can get it home. Save yourself the embarrassment and update your wife to the latest fashion, stop looking the other way that might lead you to an early grave. Better still if you feel strong enough, go for as many wives as you can it's not a taboo in Africa. If you are Christian and your body cannot hold, don't take the high position in the church, God is not against the culture he never took away Israelites culture but he made it strong.
