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Despite living under the same roof and raising their three children together, a Japanese husband hasn't spoken a single word to his wife in the last 20 years! We all know no marriage is perfect, and spouses sometimes give each other the silent treatment when they're upset.
But when such happens, in Kenya or elsewhere, such spouses are always expected to go their separate ways or try to patch things up and move on. But not Okou Katayama. Japanese media reports that for the past two decades Katayama has only answered his wife Yumi's attempts at making conversation with occasional nods and grunts.
Their unusual relationship was revealed by their 18-year-old son Yoshiki, who appealed to a Japanese TV show to help him fix things, as he had never heard his parents talk to each other.
In a letter to Hokkaido Television, Yoshiki wrote that his father was going to retire soon and he was worried that his parents' awkward relationship might end in divorce.
He and his siblings knew something was wrong, but they had never been able to figure out the reason behind Okou's cold attitude. As you can imagine, the unique situation got the attention of the show's producers.
Hokkaido TV managed to set up a meeting between the two spouses in a public park in Nara City, with their children watching and listening from afar. Surprisingly, Okou was the one who initiated the conversation after 20 years of silence, telling Yumi "'Somehow it's been a while since we talked."
As their emotional children start to tear up, Okou reveals the reason for keeping silent for so long. "You were so concerned about the kids," he says. "I was kind of ... jealous. I was sulking about it." The man apologised to his wife and promised to talk to her.
Research has shown that it's not uncommon for a man to sulk or feel neglected when a child comes along, because they simply can't accept being second in their partners' priorities. However, this situation normally results in quarrelling or infidelity, so Okou's behaviour can be considered extremely rare, even unique.
