Ladies, why your man's cheating might be your fault

One of women’s worst nightmares is cheating, proven or suspected.

But one of the cheapest excuses by women who finds themselves in such a scenario is making the assumption that once a man cheats, he will always cheat. And therefore the only option such women claim to have is to dump them. What a folly!

I find that a very simplistic way of handling cheating. Hold on, don’t get me wrong. I don’t condone cheating; be it by a man or a woman.

To set the record straight; it’s an act of betrayal and an immoral thing which I wouldn’t condone myself. 

Crying wolf

But having said that, I believe in some cases women invite upon themselves this problem. Thus, the last thing they should do in such cases is cause a ruckus and call their cheating men names.

See, these days most women use sex to either punish or reward a man and sometimes, they are not into it altogether for no good reason at all.

Now, tell me what should men whose wives manipulate or punish them by withholding or rationing sex do?

In other words every woman who finds out that her guy cheated on her should stop running around crying wolf and calling him names.

So ladies, when you fake those headaches and ‘play hard to get’ in relationships and in marriage, brace yourself for the consequences. I mean, when you rattle a snake, you must be prepared to be bitten by it!

Honestly, at times, it’s women pushing men to cheat only for them to cry foul later.

My argument has always been no man is genetically predisposed to cheating. There is always a reason for cheating. Stop being passive and figure it out.

Like seriously?

Some women have even gone to the extent of claiming that cheating is embedded in male genes. Like seriously? Come on ladies, give men a break.

Some women call men dogs, which got me thinking hard.

Look, when a master treats his dog well — feeds it properly and shows it love by grooming it — trust me, that dog will be very loyal and serve the master with all its heart.

So ladies whose men cheat, dig deep, there is a reason why your man is unfaithful, and its nothing to do with genes! And stop calling men names.