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I came across a post by a popular political blogger on Facebook, a staunch critic and a supporter of one of the oldest parties in Kenya. She’s known for being that grammar dwarf, a loud mouth that attacks anything and everything that irks her. So she put up a post on Facebook, saying that men give them mediocre bedroom skills. And 90% of them. I asked myself what gives her the moral authority to make such a blatant generalization. How many men must you sleep with so that you can conclude that 90% of the have mediocre skills? May be you are the problem, that’s why you attract mediocre men. Here is the post:
“In 21st century, no woman must ever allow a man to give her mediocre sex, where only he gets satisfied, and then falls asleep as if he had done hard labour when all he has done is unleash mediocrity. Women, we must DEMAND sexual satisfaction. No man must have a peaceful sleep after pounding on us like a rabbit or jogoo, while we lie there silently asking ourselves what we've done to deserve such suffering.
The age of being chowed must come to an end. The era of being afraid to be selfish when it comes to our sexual needs is long gone. Come next year we will be marshalling in a new epoch where no-one is going to sleep until everyone is satisfied. African women have suffered mediocre sex for too long, in the name of appearing "moral" or being "lady-like". We're so afraid to demand so many things, because we fear it will make us appear "loose" or "uncultured". If you want that man to go down there, you shall not have to think of signs to show that you want that.
You shall simply say: "Baby, be down there ". Any culture that encourages human suffering is not worth preserving.
That shyness and shame must be buried with our grandmothers. Byee walking away unscared as a daughter of the soil from beautiful hills of sacho true blood of kamasia .. Mtu akusumbuuuue mkikutana kinakaa kaa jogoo two mins kimemaliza his idiocy you walk away wondering what the hell ..later to be called sasa baby ..stupidest can't respond go away tafuta rabbit mwenzako wa dakika tatu bure san.”