Women, unlike men, form close superficial friendships. Some of these relationships last years’ and they imagine they are best of friends because they have known each other for long.
The truth of the matter is that these friendships are superficial and they are not as close as they seem.
Have you ever wondered what happens to besties in college some few years after graduation?Or those close women colleagues who used to be like Siamese twins but they no longer talk?
Worry no more, here are the reasons why they break up and become sworn enemies.
1. A case of wizi wa mapenziAs best friends, they will tell each other their deepest secrets. A girl will reveal the name of her boyfriend, how he treats her and how generous he is.
This man will then hit on her best friend.
To make this short ugly story a bit longer, the girl will play hard to get.
Meanwhile,she will be asking bestie vital information about her man.Then like a missile from space, she will snatch her best friends man.And that's how rafiki wa jana atakuwa adui mkubwa leo.
2. When bestie gets a baby As you are all are aware by now, that boyfriend story is just a sham. When one girl gets pregnant, the others shy away.They are afraid to really be there for each other.
They are too busy, as they say.But we all know it's because they were just self-centred mean ladies.
3. The Girls who can't keep secrets As mentioned earlier, the secrets boyfriends share are many.Some of those secrets could even include the exact location of the Malaysian plane.Secrecy is therefore important.
Then a friend who can't keep a secret happens. She tells of a girlfriend who has seven boyfriends, had three backstreet abortions, and doesn’t support her family and how one of them is cheating on her husband. A breakup is, therefore, inevitable.
4. Borrowed stuff that Was never returned Since sharing is caring, besties have perfected the art of borrowing each other stuff.
They borrow each other weaves, wigs, shoes, clothes and even makeup.Pointless to note that they talk ill behind each other’s back.
They can't stop asking themselves why one of them can't afford the stuff she borrows.
Then there's that superiority cold war of who is the richest of them all. The high walls of the relationship will come tumbling when an item is not returned.
5. Jealousy
Don't be deceived by the many selfies, a million hash tags and the "like a sister to me" stories. They are white lies.
Beneath the facade of supposed deep love is a python spewing hatred. They are secretly unhappy that their friends are doing well than them.
Their friend's flawless skin, expensive weave, designer clothes, a loving family and a stable relationship are a hot nail on their miserable lives.
That's why one sunny evening they will just avoid their best friends.
Their organized life is an insult to them. Never be deceived, there’s nothing like best friends forever.It's just a relationship of convenience and none of that shit lasts as long as ladies deceive you.
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