In some cases, we have heard a number of people complaining that a certain man is behaving as a woman when he is supposed to behave like a real man.
It is expected that boys to grow into responsible husbands and fathers.This will help them lead homes and instill confidence in their wives.
So if you want to raise a boy who will turn out to be a responsible man who can live with somebodies daughter as his wife here are some of the things you need to do.
First, allow you son to spend more time with his father or any other male figures that can mentor him into growing to a responsible person.
When he relate with male figures the boy tends to adapt their lifestyle and learn some of the things men are supposed to do.
Secondly, ensure that as a male child is growing up don’t give him toys meant for girls.They should be introduced to male oriented toys like cars and machines.
Thirdly as a mother don’t bond with your child so much that everywhere you go you go with your male child. This will make the boy familiar with the all female hues.
Additionally, check on the weight of your male child to ensure that he doesn’t grow obese. By him growing obese it will lower his self-esteem and to some extent, he is likely to be bullied by other kids.
Lastly, ensure that he plays several sports.This will help him to grow muscles and pits him against a man. Also by so doing, you will help him develop his mind. For example, PlayStation and chess make boys think critically.
These are some of the sure ways of nurturing a boy into a real man as you avoid future crisis of a grown up man who has refused to grow and who entirely depend on you when it is time to move out.