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Tuya sues husband for child upkeep, spills beans on rocky affair

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An interesting duel is set to play out at the Nairobi Children's Court after Environment Cabinet Secretary Soipan Tuya sued her estranged husband, Stephen Saibulu Kudate, demanding child maintenance and custody.

 CS Soipan Tuya

She claims that what started as fairy tale love affair with a married man in 2013 and ended up with them cohabitating as husband and wife, turned chaotic in 2020 when the man deserted her for his first wife, became abusive and stopped supporting their two children.

"We currently live separately after our association was frustrated and brought to a quick end by his continuous refusal to take responsibility towards upkeep and maintenance of the minors as well as violence, abuse and infidelity," said Tuya.

The CS wants Kudate, a former Narok County Assembly Majority Leader, compelled to pay half of the two children's maintenance and upkeep totalling Sh425,000 and an order granting her custody of the minors aged nine and four.

The amount includes Sh225,000 being half for school fees, Sh100,000 monthly entertainment allowance and another Sh100,000 for monthly upkeep.

"Despite the plaint being served upon him on September 1 and acknowledgement of receipt, he has not filed nor served me with any documents nor entered an appearance to that effect," the court papers read.

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Kudate, through lawyer Vincent Lempaa, however, denied the allegations and asked the court for seven days to file a response.

 Stephen Saibulu Kudate

He claimed Tuya has withheld factual information about their relationship and wants the court to summon her to be cross-examined.

Tuya, who was first elected as Narok Woman Rep before her elevation to Cabinet, also wants an order restraining Kudate from visiting her homes in Naroo, Kileleshwa and Karen in Nairobi or her place of work, the children's school, abusing her or the children or in any way threatening to harm them.

"In the event the court allows him access to the children, it should order that the access be limited and in my presence or that of a trusted adult family member to supervise safety of the children," said Tuya in the suit filed through lawyer Daniel Ondabu.

Tuya stated that they started living together in December 2013 until October 2020 when there was a disconnection and Kudate returned to his first wife.

"During the subsistence of the cohabitation, the mother has been the sole breadwinner, providing all the children's basic needs and paying 100% of their school fees. The man has however refused to take responsibility despite being able," said Ondabu.

He said the estranged husband has also physically and emotionally neglected the children.

The CS in her affidavit stated that Kudate was cruel and abusive during their cohabitation, and insulted her in December 2022 after denying paternity of the two children and demanded for a DNA test to ascertain his biological connection to them.

"He committed untold physical, emotional and psychological harm to me and the children. He manifested total inability to take care of us during our cohabitation and even assaulted our domestic servants," said Tuya.

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