I work as a trainee in a leading hotel in Kenya. Our department is headed by a chef and trouble is brewing between the two of us over this lady who also works in the kitchen.

I have been married for nine years and have a son aged seven. The first four years were okay but, out of nowhere, my husband started accusing me of cheating. I have become pregnant four times but have not delivered a baby since my first one. He has forced me to have abortions twice by claiming that the pregnancies are not his.

For the past five years or so, I have found myself attracting married men or men who have kids but who claim to have parted ways with the mother of their children. I never go out looking for married men in terms of them being my sponsors because I am partially stable (financially) and I take care of my own bills and have invested here and there. I am 25 years old but I don't have a man to call boyfriend or fiancée.