The advantages of having an exposed spouse

An exposed spouse is someone whose mind has been opened through formal education, social interaction, personal growth, spiritual maturity, life experiences, travel, book reading or research. It is a joy to be married to such a spouse because…

1. An exposed spouse will challenge you and sharpen you. Question is, do you want growth?

2. An exposed spouse will not hold you back from progressing because he/she is pursuing progress too.

3. An exposed spouse will not hold on to backward cultural practices that make no sense.

4. An exposed spouse will not be shaken by trials. Exposure builds up your muscle and ability to handle challenges.

5. An exposed spouse will bring fresh ideas to the home and to the marriage because of what they have seen others out there do with their homes.

6. An exposed spouse will walk with you in finding solutions. Being exposed introduces you to problem solving.

7. An exposed spouse will give multiple informed options when you two are about to make a decision such as buying a home, starting a business, buying land.

8. An exposed spouse will not mind making big decisions with you and taking risks because he/she is already used to it.

9. An exposed spouse will be secure and not become easily paranoid with your social life or career life.

10. An exposed spouse will mentor your children well with you as you raise them to become exposed children with a big worldview.

11. An exposed spouse will not embarrass you or the children by bringing drama in public.

Are you an exposed spouse? Are you constantly improving yourself?

© Dayan Masinde

In my new book, MANHOOD SERIES, I demistify what being a man is and I address the man's sexuality, his faith, emotions, relations, thoughts, struggles and needs.

In my other new book, WOMANHOOD SERIES, I talk how a woman can be the best her as an individual, a wife, a mother and a friend. I also address her needs and sexuality.

To purchase the MANHOOD SERIES written by Dayan Masinde, MPESA Ksh. 200 to 0721590954, then text the word MAN and your email address to the same number and the book will be sent to your email address for you to download and read on your phone or computer.

To purchase the WOMANHOOD SERIES written by Dayan Masinde, MPESA Ksh. 200 to 0721590954, then text the word WOMAN and your email address to the same number and the book will be sent to your email address for you to download and read on your phone or computer.