How to obtain the favour that comes with your wife

"He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord"

Obtain means that it already exists, it's just for the husband to tap into it and release it. Obtain means to request, to unlock it without force. So how does a husband obtain this favour?

1. By treating his wife right

Treating her wrong will hinder his prayers. Once your prayers are hindered, favour diminishes. There are certain blessings God will give only when a man loves his wife right. God is watching how you treat His daughter

2. By needing her

Husband, she is in your life to help you. You will only be helped to the extent that you need her. Stop doing life all alone, as you allow her to help you, your life will be crowned with favour.

3. By being responsible with her heart

A man can be responsible with a corporate company, his car, his property; but until he is responsible for a woman's heart for life will his true responsibility be seen and as he guards her, favour grows

4. By being faithful to her

Faithfulness is the foundation of many values that shapes a man's character. When a man is able to be faithful to his wife, other values such as honesty, self-control, dedication, focus and many more are added to his character and the right character attracts favour.

5. By allowing her to nurture you

Gentlemen, we don't know everything, we are not perfect, we need some molding. By allowing your wife to correct you, to celebrate and perfect your strengths, to point out your wrongs and open your eyes to existing opportunities; favour will follow you. Wives have a way of seeing things we can't.

6. By allowing yourself to be vulnerable

Yes, husbands need to be vulnerable. We need to put aside our ego and allow our emotional needs to be met. Lower your ego as a man and you will realise that men too need companionship. Opening up unlocks a human side of you, making favour be in abundance.

7. By stepping up to leadership

Any role of leadership comes with its share of favour. When a man steps up as head of the family, the greatness inside him manifests, a him never seen before emerges. Leadership makes us grow.

When a husband loves his wife right, he becomes a better version of himself. A man who mistreats his wife is one who doesn't love himself and doesn't desire to be a great man.

The success of a husband lies in how he treats his wife; not just financial success, but holistic success

© Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech