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Most women never reach the big O, but are too scared of saying anything because they will kill your ego

I came across a weird exchange on Facebook the other day. A woman had complained about the inability of most men to help her achieve orgasms and a man commented that, “So, it is also now a man’s job to make a woman cum, what exactly do women do in bed anyway?” Oh, wow! Man, she’s literally providing the vessel for the activity, but you still don’t know what her job is? If that’s not some ignorance oozing thinking,then what is?

But I understand his position, that’s just men being men…shifting blame for things they don’t want to be responsible for. Listen up men, it is okay to admit you need help in matters sex. No one expects you to be perfect just because you were born with a penis. Remember, no one taught you anything about this 'game.' You probably woke up one day with an erection and with no adult to confide in or ask for advice, so you presented the stiff issue to your peers. That is where you learnt the lazy art of you-have-a-pole-they-have-a-hole so all you know is stuffing it in there! Any extra skills you learnt from pornography, which isn’t a realistic presentation of what women want.

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