Seven ways to make her fall in love with you on the first date

‘Love at first sight’ – Does it really exist?

While many would argue that love at first sight only exists in fairytales, some actually agree that it is possible to win a girl’s heart the minute you start speaking to her.

Ladies are very sensitive beings and none of them is the same as the other. Different ladies need different things at different times and in different proportions.

The way you treat or speak to a lady the moment you meet will arguably determine how she perceives you for the rest of time.

Creating a first impression (A good one) is always the first step when you want her all to yourself.

Here are the ways to make a girl like you/ fall in love with you on the first date:

Eye Contact

Ladies are not impressed by a shy man. Look straight into her eyes when you are telling her something or when she is telling you something.

Doing this will make her trust whatever you are saying. Looking into someone’s eyes when speaking or listening to them lets them know that all your attention is on them. It also creates the feeling of trust.

Listen to her

Wise men once said, “Give your ear to a lady and she will give you everything…” Well, this might be true. Ladies like men who listen to them patiently. They always have a lot to talk about and sometimes it helps when they have somebody who listens carefully.

Read her

If you can’t read a lady you’re interested in, your efforts are in vain. All conversations have to be in sync and be careful not to go off topic.

Reading her allows you to know what to tell her when she reacts in a certain way and this prolongs the conversation. She might just be interested in spending the rest of the night with someone who understands her.

Get to know what she wants

Once you know what a girl wants, you will be able to stick with her for the longest time. Ladies admire guys who provide them with whatever they need. Whether its locations, ornaments or affection, you have to please the lady you want to be with by providing.

Be friendly

On the first date, always smile and be friendly. It is important for a girl to see that you are honest, friendly and entertained while with them.

They will get the feeling of wanting to be around you more. Be open and tell her what she needs to know honestly.

Appearance is everything

Do not go to dates dressed scantily and looking shaggy. Ladies love men who are smartly dressed, have well-kempt hair and can fit in any surrounding based on what they have on their bodies. The first impression a lady gets determine show she perceives you for the rest of time.

Compliment her – First thing!

A lady will go bonkers to look good on her first date. It is important to recognize her efforts and laud her for it. Complement her hair, shoes, dress, perfume or her general entire look. During the conversation, never forget to compliment her smile – this makes her feel more confident if she was not sure about herself.

NOTE: Do not overdo all the above especially if you are not interested in dating her. Some women are smart (sixth sense) and will play along once they realise your games.