A broken heart doesn’t mean a broken bond

Each and every moment you find someone to give your heart to, you are always optimistic that your relationship will always soar up to the best heights. This, many times, does not happen. At one point without any warning, you find that you don’t just stop having feelings for each other but you have stopped being in love with each other. This breakup occurs with a lot of dignity on both sides. To many people, there is an assumption that there is nothing wrong but a good and healthy relationship. They are usually shocked when they find out that you are no longer love birds they once knew.

Although these can be the hardest breakups to get over because everything is still unresolved, it is the best break-up. This kind of breakup renders one to become a sweet ex. There’s is always an untold attraction to each other, which includes, wanting to know about the finer details of one's life and entirely being concerned about their wellbeing of one another.

It's other people who come between you or circumstances that were beyond your control. Even so, you still miss each other. You cherish each other and you always look back as you walk away. Yours is a typical Romeo and Juliet story. You loved each other long and hard enough.

They cannot be compared to that ex whose name you forgot. The one who used to hit you, cheated on you and said you will have an amazing wedding only for him to propose to the girl next door. I even don't know why am talking about this wicked souls. But they also think we are Jezebels. I believe that you are nobody's ex. When you break up, you don't know that person or you don't remember meeting them.

The sweet ex is always there. That was before other people started screaming your name as Usher and Alicia Keys say in my boo. Your relationship dates many years back. Because of the many amazing things he did for you, he's hard to forget. When you go back home where you grew up with them, you catch a glimpse of each other. Some do bad things with them. Let's not even go there.

This ex has your back. It doesn't matter whether you have seen each other or not. If you have a problem, it's his problem. No matter the time, distance and status, he will always be with you. He must see you when he is in town. Some have secret affairs while others are just good friends.

 No matter how, where and for how long the tides of life have moved us, the sweet unforgettable ex lives with us. We can pretend that we are happy and we have moved on. And we love our partners and we are committed to them. But it's just that, a fat lie we tell ourselves. When shit happens, many will be surprised that they end up together.Celebrate that sweet unforgettable ex today.