I have been dating this girl for the last six months. I love her and have even taken her home to meet my parents. We are already planning to get married. The problem is about a month ago, I found her in her ex-boyfriendâs room in college in an uncompromising situation. She is still in college and the guy works in the same town where she schools. This is far from where I stay and I became uncomfortable with this.
I talked to her about it and warned her about seeing this man and she promised to change. Sometimes when I call, she refuses to pick my calls and I suspect that she is in this manâs place. I have found her there twice. I donât know what to do because I love this girl. Please adviceâ¦
Your take:
Gordon, your girlfriend is still in love with her ex and that is why she is still keeping in touch with him. You may be her back-up plan. The fact that she schools near his place means that it is easier for their affair to bloom. Donât waste your love on somebody who does not reciprocate. There is a nice girl out there for you so donât accept to play second fiddle.
{Oyoo Wycklife}
Gordon, your girlfriend has revived an old affair with her ex-boyfriend and she is not willing to end it soon. Please end this relationship and get a woman who is faithful and will make you happy. It is obvious that your relationship with this girl is doomed. Severe links with her before it is too late.
{Felix â Oyugisnet}
It is understandable that you took an initiative to introduce this girl to your parents knowing that you were going to marry her.
But her actions in the recent past speak volumes and it seems she has no feelings or respect for you. Catching her red-handed twice in her exs house tells a lot about her. You need to be wise and get a woman who loves you.
{Etyang Denis â Malaba}
I think you trusted this woman too fast. Before committing to her did you know why she stopped dating her ex?
She seems to be unfaithful and she will make an adulterous wife. Thank God because you are still in the courting stage. Do not lose hope as there are many good women out there who are wife material.
